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We pray these special memories from Preemie Prints
will help families heal and remember how strong
they were in overcoming their NICU journey together.
A NICU STORY | THOUGHTS FROM MOM
“Ever since I was a little
girl I always had a premonition that I would have twins. I idolized my
grandmother all my life and wanted to be just like her. She had 6 kids
including one set of fraternal twin girls. Everyone would always tease me
saying that twins skip a generation and that I very well could end up with
twins. However, as I got older and realized the odds of that really happening,
I gave up on the idea. Plus, my cousin from the same line of family had
identical twin girls, so I just assumed that it had skipped a generation and
went to her. Therefore, there was no way I would ever have twins.
My husband and I had been
married for 2 and a half years when we welcomed our little boy into the world.
It was a perfect pregnancy with absolutely no complications and he was born at
39 weeks weighing 6 pounds, 15 ounces. We were so blessed. We always knew that
we wanted a big family so it wouldn't be long before we would try again. When
my son was 13 months old, we found out we were pregnant again. We were so
happy! I went to the doctor’s office at 8 weeks and had an ultrasound done. It
showed one baby that was measuring right as he or she should be. We were so
happy and I was so excited to be pregnant again expecting it to be just like my
last pregnancy.
Fast forward to our 20 week
ultrasound where we would find out the sex of the baby. Since we first found
out we were pregnant with the “at home” pregnancy test, I was telling everyone
that it was going to be a girl. I had the most intense feeling about this that
I told my husband, "If the ultrasound tech tells us it's a boy, I'm going
to tell her she's wrong". Even the night before the ultrasound, I had a
dream about girls and pink and bows and everything that goes with it. So we get
to the ultrasound and immediately I'm seeing two babies in disbelief. The
ultrasound tech instantly starts looking over her paperwork and asks, "Did
you know you were having twins?" I answered back to her, "Shut up!
Are you serious?” It was complete shock. We already had an ultrasound that only
showed one baby. My first trimester pregnancy symptoms were maybe a little worse
than the first time, but not by much. I couldn't believe it! Thank goodness my
husband was there with me so we could both take in the shock together. It
didn't take us about 30 more minutes to get over the shock and start to get
excited! I always wanted twins and during the ultrasound we also found out it
was two girls! Just like all of the other women in my family with twins. We
couldn’t wait to tell our parents and siblings!
However, everything wasn’t
perfect. Baby B had discordant growth of around 20%. Since we’re from a small
town with a small hospital, they immediately had us do a web conference call
with an MFM (Maternal Fetal Medicine) doctor. She told us the risks involved
and asked us to switch care to the “big” hospital in a nearby city about 60
minutes away. Over the next several weeks, we had tons of doctor’s appointments
and ultrasounds. At 25 weeks, we found out the discordant growth had increased
and that baby B had an umbilical cord/placental issue that was attributing to
the slow growth. They told us that we could potentially lose baby B and that it
was just a waiting game until my next appointment at 28 weeks. Those weeks were
incredibly difficult, but I had complete faith that everything was going to
work out. I checked that each baby was moving and kicking several times a day
and that really helped me get through those weeks.
At our 28 week appointment
we were told that the discordant growth had increased, but that baby B had
still grown. With all the data we had, we decided to start doing ultrasounds and
heart rate monitoring twice a week to keep a better check on the babies.
Shortly before 31 weeks, my doctor had me check into the hospital for
hospitalized bed rest and frequent daily monitoring. It wasn’t that anything
was worse, she just wanted to take extra precautions since we were getting
close to our goal date for delivery of 34 weeks pregnant. So I checked into the
hospital expecting to be there for 3 weeks and didn’t even make it 3 days.
Thank goodness we were in the hospital when we were because on the third day,
baby B’s heart rate kept dipping all throughout the day. It was apparent she
was in distress and the doctor on call that weekend finally made the decision
that it was time to deliver.
This is the moment my
husband and I had been working towards for so long. However, I was still
incredibly scared because I truly wasn’t expecting a delivery before 34 weeks.
I was worried about the babies and how they would be coming out 2 months prior
to their due date. The C-section happened very fast and before we knew it, my
husband and I were the proud parents of two beautiful daughters. And to make
matters even better, they were so much healthier than we ever expected them to
be. Neither one of them had to be intubated for breathing, their skin color was
great, and there were no major problems generally associated with preemies.
We’ve only had the girls in the NICU now for 24
hours, but our experience so far has been great. That staff is so good at our
hospital. They are great at explaining things to us and keeping up with the
needs of our girls. My husband and I both know that we have a long road ahead
of us before we can bring them home and that there is most likely going to be a
lot more ups and downs before we get there. However, we are so blessed to have
our two girls in our lives after a pretty difficult pregnancy and we couldn’t
ask for much more than that!”Photos belong to our volunteer photographers, families,
and
organization please do not use for any purpose.
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Preemie Prints is a 501(c)(3)
nonprofit organization sharing hope with NICU families through a variety of
support programs. One of those programs is the gift of NICU photography and
preemie photography. NICU families from across the US can request a no-charge
photography session by a Preemie Prints volunteer. The family request from can
be found on the right side of our website. These sessions are free of charge
and for any NICU family, regardless of time spent in the NICU. The NICU photo
shoot can take place inside the NICU or after baby is discharged and at home
until their 1st birthday. Facing time in a NICU with a premature or critically
ill baby is an extremely difficult time for families. Preemie Prints has a
mission to share hope by letting families know they are not alone. Preemie
Prints currently has over 100 volunteers nationwide. We are always looking for
more volunteers to share in our mission! If you are interested, please
email sherri@preemieprints.org and
visit our website at www.preemieprints.org. To date
Preemie Prints and our volunteers have gifted over 400 NICU family sessions.
This was a Preemie Prints
NICU graduate photography session that took place near St. Louis, MO. We're thankful to the family
for sharing their story & memories in support of other NICU families.
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